Life of Chung

Life of Chung

Sep 6 / 2:57am

No Regrets!

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Sep 5 / 6:09pm
I keep going through the motions - trying to do all that I need to get done to keep my regular life going - but everything is so meaningless right now because my heart is hollow and empty. It honestly feels like I've had three major, devastating break-ups this year. With the same person. Whom I still love dearly, and wish nothing but the best for.

And I miss my dog.

Talk about double-whammy.

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Sep 2 / 9:44pm

Why I Love Weddings

People who know me know I'm unlikely to wed. But I love weddings. And it's not just because of the fancily dressed people (yes, men, you're about 100% more dashing in suits, vests, and ties), the superbly delicious food, the open bar, and the consequently goofy dancing (thank you, open bar!) to questionable music. Those are all great things. But the thing I really love about weddings is the ceremony itself and the unabashed celebration of real love and commitment. Honestly, I don't recall the last wedding I was at where the officiant gave some full-on bullshit about how two people were just made for one another and that everything would work out swimmingly for them. No. They advised constantly working on the relationship because, well, great relationships take work. If you think great relationships are effortless and it should just "work" automatically, I don't know how to break this to you, but you'll be sorely disappointed with marriage. Quick. (And I'd advise "pre-nup." Just in case....) The other piece of advice that I often hear: celebrate and love one another for who you are and who you'll become. You're growing old together, after all. To marry someone and commit yourself to them for the rest of your life is a huge deal and you should do it with eyes wide open, seeing exactly who they are and who you are. If you're completely honest with yourself and your partner, love will help you take care of the rest.
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Sep 2 / 12:39am

Jetsetting

I'm flying JetBlue on its All-You-Can-Jet Pass. Total cost: $599 + $89 for taxes to Bogota. There will be a lot of waiting around. Luckily (1) I love airports and (2) I'll have my laptop.

Yay!

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Sep 1 / 3:59pm

"I once lived in a cul-de-sac. It was truly awful."

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Sep 1 / 12:00pm

I think it's fun-tastically awesome that the Spanish equivalent of "hehehe" is "jejeje"

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Sep 1 / 11:24am

Love in the Tummy

Wow, toast + coffee = heavenly. I've been eating breakfast quite regularly. (Helps to have nowhere to rush off to in the morning.) It's such a delicious meal, no matter how simple! Today, I've got the addition of two Morningstar breakfast patties. I've been unintentionally cutting back on meat products. I wonder if it's because of subconscious guilt for eating so many yummy, yummy chickens in Malaysia and Singapore. So yummy. So very, very yummy.

Oh yes, I still need to blog my trip. So much to share. I'm glad I wrote most of it down, otherwise it'd be lost forever because my memory is terrible. Well, at least I'd remember all the important stuff - like where and what I ate and how it tasted. Yum. Yum. Yum.

I went to Berkeley and realized something: IT'S SO GHETTO THERE. ZOMG. And I have no idea how to get around even though I lived for years there, even after graduating from Berkeley. I guess you have to keep refreshing things by incorporating it in your life somehow. Otherwise, out of sight, out of mind without a GPS (or a friend who knows where you're going).

I heard a cover of "Moon River" by this Chinese singer, Khalil Fong (YouTube link to the song). I was in Hong Kong at the time, standing in an HMV using their listening booths for free because I'm a deadbeat and things in HK are kinda expensive. But I loved these lines:

Two drifters
Off to see the world
There's such a lot of world to see
We're after the same rainbow's end
Waiting 'round the bend

And of course I've heard the song before. Many times. And I instantly thought about the Sex and the City episode when Big left New York for Napa and he and Carrie danced to the song. I guess in that moment, for me, being in a foreign land listening to the song, it felt nice to have this idea of drifting and floating, even if it's drifting away from the one(s) I love. Because we're going after the same thing, right? We'll meet up eventually. That's life for you.

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Aug 31 / 1:14pm

Commitment

I'm so adverse to commitment, I fear that if breathing were optional, I'd be uncomfortable about committing to breathing on a constant, regular basis.

I'm only half-joking.

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Aug 31 / 10:37am

A Conversation

Guy One (Chinese dude in the forefront of this photo) was speaking to Guy Two (Japanese dude in-focus in the photo). It should be noted that their English isn't great. But hilarious it is.

G1: You're very good looking. [slight pause] Are you a model?
G2: Mo-dull? Mother?
G1: No, model. Model.
G2 [shrugs + nervous smile]

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Aug 24 / 1:25am

I don't wanna smile without you

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